nyllover wrote: Wed Jun 24, 2026 5:00 pm
Another idea could be to create a specific section of the forum, that would require a specific authorization which I could manually assign.
But I'm not so sure how we could define the rules to grant access to it...most probably a group of people would decide who can and cannot be authorized...dunno, just an idea
I've been a member of this place for a long time...ALMOST as long as Mr. Mike, but I think he's got a couple of years on me.
Nyllover, just from my observations watching the ebb and flow of this site and the community over the years, I think that you've created a wonderful place for like minded people to enjoy our attraction. And for a long time, it's been fairly chill. I would say unfortunately, that gone are the days when people just gladly shared and enjoyed, and kept to themselves privately once out there on the vast net. The new generation of internet users are completely drowning in a lack of ability to distingush between reality and their fantasy. I can't imagine what just normal female youtubers go through having to deal with random nutjobs who start randomly messaging them because they don't understand their parasocial attachment is not something that should be acted upon or even brought up.
I mean, I'm not ashamed to admit it, I've jerked off several times, ok more than several to your wife's luscious feet and legs in hose as she shoeplays. But that doesn't mean I think I have a bond with her that requires me to try to constantly comment or message her about content she has hoping to get some kind of acknowledgement.
For instance, the one guy not long ago who was being a complete ass about posting comments on videos is obviously just an attention seeker and who knows, he may just be trolling to try and make things worse for us all in the long run. Lord knows that good candid shoeplay, especially in hose and heels, is so hard to come by in the public forums these days. When it comes to perhaps a secret/special/admin authorized-only thread, I think it's something you could possibly get started with not much issue. Probably when you think for a moment, you know off the top of your who some of the long time, quality contributors are that would warrant being able to access a thread like that. (hopefully me included
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I've just seen over the years, as I think we all have, that the unhinged idiots with no restraint on what they say or do are everywhere on the internet now. I mean, they always were, but it's not like it used to be in our community. YouTube is great, but we've all seen more than one good source of content ruined because some guy who thinks that the people on the video are actually reading the comments will respond to his "Oh yeah baby! you got me so hard at 13:15 when you slipped that shoe off!" or as we all well know back in the QVC/HSN golden age how that was ruined by stupid people emailing the hosts. Now they just don't care anymore, and they come right to the source, here, and openly mock basic decorum and disrespecting the sources of what we enjoy.
I don't want to derail the thread anymore than needed with my ramblings. I appreciate the site, I appreciate the OG and new users who come here with a desire to share openly and enjoy it privately.
I hope we can figure out a solution that keeps things going in a positive direction that ensures stability for the foreseeable future.
