Women taking advantage of our foot fetish

Post by **nyllover** » Fri Mar 20, 2015 11:55 am

I've been reading a lot about this, and i find it quite peculiar... still don't know if it's exciting or if it's just plain wrong. Women using our weakness for foot fetish (or other fetishes) to get what they want from men (usually in a dom/slave relationship).
I've read that it comes in many forms, with women mainly using it to get gifts or money from so called slaves, that apparently get excited by it. That is called financial domination: and actually a guy i know is a lot into it, with his financial domination blog listing what he does on this..pretty weird stuff in my opinion.

I have been thinking...isn't this quite similar to the very basic concept of the classic footsies under the table with a stranger? I have been fantasizing a lot about this... about a woman playing footsies with a man that is interviewing her for a job, or similar thing...and i think to recall we do have a couple of scenes like that on Nyllover.com. What do you think of all this?

footoncrotch · Post by **footoncrotch** » Fri Mar 20, 2015 5:04 pm

I personally don't like when we mix fantasies with money matters.
I totally share your fantasy of the women playing footsies undertable for whatever reason: show interest, public teasing, embarassing teased guy or pleasure to seduce. if any money enters the "game", it sounds fake to me. i can go to any prostitute or call girl and pay her for a fetish scenario. i don't judge or blame the people into it, it is just not my thing at all
To me the meaning of footsie under table, is a kind of psychologic victory, using advantage of a weakness, to show sexual attention or small humiliation.
Once , my wife failed in making me cum with her feet, i was surprised when two hours later she started her tease again saying" i don'y like when I loose...."
i realised that for her ,it is a failure, if our sexual acts whaterver they are, don't lead to my cumming.

Post by **nyllover** » Fri Mar 20, 2015 6:17 pm

I totally agree with you, and that example on moneyslavery is just to point in the directionof the most unusual (and probably wrong) way of living this kind of fantasy. To me, and probably to us, it's way more exciting if, say, a woman plays footsies under the table just to convince the guy on doing something for her (anything really)...or if she just wants to embarass him in front of others.

Footsiefreak · Post by **Footsiefreak** » Sat Mar 21, 2015 3:14 pm

Well being a veteran of playing footsie with strangers its not the same at all.Doing that can get you jail time.But having an arrangement with someone is not illegal.You might call it a form of prostitution but if they agree to it theres nothing wrong with it.

Hell I would pay for roleplay and not worry about being busted

nonamer · Post by **nonamer** » Sun Mar 22, 2015 3:30 am

Never thought of the subject but the picture is hot i would say

footoncrotch · Post by **footoncrotch** » Sun Mar 22, 2015 6:39 pm

when money enters the game, footsie turns from erotic behaviour to tease, to some kind of job. It looses its primal purpose...Once again it is only my opinion.
It is funny to remember that, before i met my wife, i had strong fancies of living foot fetish experiences with any women posting adds for that kind of services. i even met one once; but never did anything because, i wouldn't be as excited as if i lived this experience without having to pay to enjoy women's feet. until i met very open minded girls..and the my wife.

Post by **nyllover** » Sun Mar 22, 2015 9:46 pm

Totally agree with you guys...but as far as i understood, this financial domination thing is different. Guys actually get pleasure in giving money to those women...it's a kind of domination. Tough (if not impossible) to understand, but it's not the same as a "paid service", it's more like gifts to a Goddess...if i understood it correctly.

Oh well, to each his own i guess

llama · Post by **llama** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 6:14 am

yes nyllover Ive seen this play out on cam sites....the mans fetish is to be told to pay her, usually the larger the amount the better...I dont get it

Footsiefreak · Post by **Footsiefreak** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 3:14 pm

nyllover wrote:Totally agree with you guys...but as far as i understood, this financial domination thing is different. Guys actually get pleasure in giving money to those women...it's a kind of domination. Tough (if not impossible) to understand, but it's not the same as a "paid service", it's more like gifts to a Goddess...if i understood it correctly.

Oh well, to each his own i guess

Some people just have money to give away like they don't want it and might as well get something that you love in return

hiker · Post by **hiker** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 10:55 pm

The financial domination thing really isn't my thing. Doesn't do anything for me.

A woman exploiting a man's foot fetish in a slightly dominant way for other personal gain (getting a job, getting him to do something, etc.) can be pretty erotic. However, only in fantasy form. In reality, not so much. For instance, seeing a porn video about it would be great, but having it happen to me in reality would probably have the opposite effect.