Girls who sit on their feet

[Midnight]

Okay, I joined this forum because I work at a coffee shop and a regular customer, a college girl in her late teens or early twenties, is making me absolutely wretched, y'all.

She comes in almost every night with her female friends and they study together as a group. This particular girl is very obviously the queen bee of the group. She's a petite brunette who always wears form-fitting short-shorts and flip flops, and when they sit at their large round table, she always takes a chair that's turned away from the rest of the dining area, facing her friends and the wall behind them.

There's an actual ritual that she goes through before she puts her feet on display for everyone behind her in the dining area to see. First, after she has sat down, she slips out of her flip-flops and folds her legs up in the chair criss-cross so that her feet are hidden under her thighs. Then, after five to ten minutes of this position, she doubles her legs up under her and sits on her feet.

Guys, her feet are breathtakingly beautiful. Petite, shapely, smooth, soft, clean, pedicured. It's obvious she loves them and takes good care of them. It's also obvious she loves putting them on display for all the people behind her in the coffee shop (which is everyone except for her friends at the table) to admire. She scrunches her soles and wiggles her toes as she chats and giggles and gossips with her friends. Sometimes she crosses her ankles under her so that each foot is tucked under the opposite butt cheek (not sure if you can picture that, it's an unusual sitting position that seems like it should be physiologically impossible but she makes it look effortless and comfy). Then she reaches down and runs her fingers back and forth and up and down between her toes. The first time I saw her do this, I felt faint.

What's even sexier is that at least some of her friends seem to admire her feet and love the way she shows them off by sitting on them as much as I do. When she shifts from sitting cross-legged to tucking her feet under her butt, I've seen girls who are sitting next to her look down at her folded legs and bare feet and smile privately to themselves. I've seen other girls who don't have a view of her feet and legs get up and look openly at them as they walk to and from the bathroom or to another table. Maybe half or three-quarters of these girls also sit on their feet in their chairs, though they usually keep their shoes on. A couple of weeks ago, I saw a girl from this group take off her sandals and sit on one bare foot so that everyone in the coffee shop could see while she looked around self consciously... and then she quickly put her foot back on the floor. Like she just wanted to try it.

I've always admired pretty feet, but I've never been so turned on by them that I couldn't think straight. When I was in school (I'm a college graduate, 25), I would occasionally see girls in class slip off their sandals or flip-flops and sit on one or both feet, and it always turned me on, but never as much as this queen bee in this study group does. What's so sexy is that she knows exactly what she's doing and she's exhibitionistic about her feet. I've never seen a girl who so obviously, regularly, habitually displayed her bare soles the way this girl does.

Has anyone had a similar experience? I just want to feel a little less alone, because damn, this girl is killing me.

[Collegetownstudios]

You are not alone.

[Midnight]

You are not alone.

Thank you.

[Midnight]

Does anyone else have stories or experiences specific to girls sitting on their bare feet in public like that? Because I seriously feel like I could lose my job because of this girl.

[Collegetownstudios]

Does anyone else have stories or experiences specific to girls sitting on their bare feet in public like that? Because I seriously feel like I could lose my job because of this girl.

How do you feel you could lose your job over her?

[Midnight]

Does anyone else have stories or experiences specific to girls sitting on their bare feet in public like that? Because I seriously feel like I could lose my job because of this girl.

How do you feel you could lose your job over her?

Because whenever she comes in I can't think or concentrate on anything else. Like, even before she sits down, when she's standing in line to order, I know what she's going to do and I'm anticipating it. And, fuck, even when she's just standing in line, she does that flamingo-pose thing where she stands on one foot and slips the other foot out of its flip flop and hikes it up on her thigh. And she and her friends are usually there for a couple of hours.

I'm exaggerating a little because I do manage to function and do my job. But I often have to ask customers to repeat themselves because I'm only half paying attention. Plus I just feel like a creep. This girl is too young for me--she's not THAT much younger age-wise, but personality wise I can tell we would not be compatible. Actually, from the things I've overheard her saying, I don't even think I like her. But I'm pretty sure she is the sexier to me than any girl I've ever seen in real life or in movies or porn or anything. Part of it is her physical beauty, but what puts her over the top is her cute-sexy kneeling pose showing off her feet. I'm fucking obsessed. lol.

[Collegetownstudios]

Dude, you're both college aged.
Stop overthinking it. If you're that interested, go and introduce yourself to her.
You'll learn more about her and then be able to determine if you're really into her.
Be confident and enjoy your life.

Stop holding insecurities.

[ShoeplayJ]

Actually, from the things I've overheard her saying, I don't even think I like her.

Now I'm curious lol. What have you heard her saying?

[Footsiefreak]

You should go to the movie theater a lot of women do that and you can sit right next her and look

[Footsiefreak]

I don't think you could lose your job. I mean she keeps coming in there

[Midnight]

Actually, from the things I've overheard her saying, I don't even think I like her.

Now I'm curious lol. What have you heard her saying?

Lol, just catty, passive-aggressive stuff--nothing that's quotable or would make sense out of context. She has a Mean Girls vibe. Physically, she is my type up and down, but personality-wise, she's the type of girl I go out of my way to avoid. So that's frustrating.

[Midnight]

You should go to the movie theater a lot of women do that and you can sit right next her and look

Well what's sexy is that I can see her butt and her feet through the open back of her chair. The movie theaters where I live don't have open back seats, so if girls take off their shoes and sit on their feet, you can't see anything. Which is probably good since I would always miss the entire fucking movie I paid to see. lol.

[Midnight]

I don't think you could lose your job. I mean she keeps coming in there

Well, if I lose my sanity, I'll lose my job, which it feels like I'm doing Every. Fucking. Time she comes into the coffee shop.

[tobydole]

yeah it's why this fetish is a blessing AND a curse I know the feeling you describe, it can be very frustrating. A lot of us on here like "shoeplay", which is when they fidget around with their shoes using their feet. Same difference, can be sometimes too hot and get you overloaded. There are ethical and unethical ways to go about it, but overall you are going to need to work on self control to not only enjoy it but also be able to function.

Just a couple of weeks ago I was at a Panera doing my thing and got a girl who sat on her feet a few times! she even made a comment to the person she was with that her foot kept falling asleep and took it out and set it back on her birk.

[Midnight]

Tobydole, brother, I know.

Shoeplay is a pretty popular subcategory of foot fetish, and I wish I had it so I'd have more company. My subcategory--girls sitting on their feet-- doesn't even have its own name, and people who have it as bad as I do seem to be few and far between, lol. I don't care if she's wearing shoes, or in socks, or barefoot. I don't even care if I'm at an angle where I can see her feet under her ass, or an angle where I only see the fold of her legs. When girls talk about it like that girl at Panera's--mention that their feet are asleep, or that they're sitting on them--I go off into another dimension. One of my most erotic memories in high school was a situation where our class was divided into groups, my group was sitting on the floor, and an adorable girl in another group was sitting in an open-back chair with her Converse-clad feet tucked under her firm round spandex-encased butt. I came up with a reason to say something to her, and got her attention by tapping the sole of one shoe. She yelped at me to stop, but laughed, and kept her feet tucked under her, so later on I grabbed one shoe by the toes and wiggled it and she yelped again. It would have been better if she'd been in socks or barefoot, but it was exciting enough when she was wearing sneakers.

This queen bee at the coffee shop, though--she's got the perfect body for the cute-sexy pose of sitting on her feet, but she ALSO has the prettiest, most perfect feet I've ever seen, so this feels more directly like foot fetish than my lonely subcategory normally does.

[Midnight]

(oh and I've noticed that an unusual amount of sexy foot-sitting seems to happen at Panera restaurants. Like, no matter what city I'm in, if there's a lunch or dinner rush and I'm in a Panera's, I'm probably going to see at least one cute girl sitting on her foot.)

[tobydole]

(oh and I've noticed that an unusual amount of sexy foot-sitting seems to happen at Panera restaurants. Like, no matter what city I'm in, if there's a lunch or dinner rush and I'm in a Panera's, I'm probably going to see at least one cute girl sitting on her foot.)

I've noticed it twice so far since adding Panera to my shoeplay hunting spots. They have wifi and a lot of people go there with their laptops to work on homework/whatever so that leads to longer periods of sitting there and thus your foot sitting. Similar to university libraries. Which is good! Too bad winter is only a few months away here... university libraries tend to still have play and shoes off in cold months but I'm not so sure about places like Panera and starbucks/local coffee shops.

Nothing wrong with that interest though! Interesting to see the other ways our fetish manifests.

[Midnight]

When I was in college, I was studying in the library one night, and there was a girl studying with her boyfriend. She was wearing distressed denim short-shorts, she had long tan legs, she had kicked off her flip flops to sit on her bare feet, and her fucking boyfriend had his arm around the back of her chair and was rubbing her feet while they were studying. And I thought, okay, if this guy is actually studying, he doesn't have a foot fetish at all. Or he has the biggest fetish in the world and he isn't absorbing a single word that he's supposed to be reading. Seriously... no matter what your subcategory is... that sight would turn anyone with any kind of a foot fetish on, wouldn't it?

[paradigm88]

Especially over the last few years, I've lamented the lack of places where people can simply exist. COVID set it off and the world still hasn't bounced back; I'm not sure it will, or that it wouldn't have evolved to this anyway.

When I was single, I'd go to a Starbucks on Friday or Saturday night, hang out with my laptop and a drink and write (or try) for a couple hours. Sometimes I'd try a Panera. But you didn't feel like you were in anyone's way. Sometimes I'd see a pretty girl, but rarely. There was always the potential.

I feel like Starbucks was moving away from that, going to fewer comfy chairs and seating areas and more harder tables/chairs that are kind of geared toward turning over customers. COVID accelerated it out of necessity, since now you couldn't hang around inside. Now, it's still a rigid atmosphere built to rotate people in and out, not welcome them for a long stay.

Panera hasn't gone that route, at least around here. They have booths, comfortable seating, a more laid-back atmosphere. They really do tick all the boxes: they cater to a middle-class/leisure/luxury-oriented clientele, they're not a grab-and-go operation, they make a long stay seem welcoming.

And when feeling welcome or comfortable, women are sure to engage in those little getting-comfortable habits.

My wife and I have done the odd Panera date over the years, from quick mid-errand or post-errand dinners to planned study/writing dates. We made a Panera stop for dinner one day before some winter errands, and she actually did kick her flats off and tuck her foot under her (she used to do it more, but it's not as comfortable in the booths now). However, she felt a bit uncomfortable thinking someone at another table could see her doing it. I'm hoping to encourage her more in the fall and winter as she gets back into flats season.

[Midnight]

So your wife's a foot-sitter? And you encourage it and you two talk about it?

I had a girlfriend in college tell me she discovered masturbation by sitting on her foot and rubbing herself against her heel. I'd had my fetish for it long before she told me this, but the information took it to a whole new level. Of course, I went directly to the internet to do my due diligence and found out my girlfriend wasn't alone. And I thought, WHERE'S THE PORN ABOUT THIS? WHY AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO THINKS IT'S HOT? A few years later, girls on TikTok did a whole trend around it! WTF?!

Maybe this provides more insight about why the queen bee at the coffee shop where I work makes me so utterly wretched.