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Is it messed up to record candids while in a relationship?

Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2026 9:36 pm
by JohnnyMarvin
To some, it might be cheating and a betrayal of faithfulness. However, to others, it's harmless if you don't act out on it, and provides a release that you might not get in your relationship. What are your thoughts?

Re: Is it messed up to record candids while in a relationship?

Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2026 7:26 pm
by istallion
I think its wrong in general if the other person does not give you consent period

Re: Is it messed up to record candids while in a relationship?

Posted: Wed Apr 29, 2026 2:11 am
by JWCooley126
Gray area imo, its like watching porn by yourself in a relationship. I don't recommend it , but don't think there's a clear cut right or wrong.

Re: Is it messed up to record candids while in a relationship?

Posted: Wed Apr 29, 2026 5:37 am
by rubyred
Depends on the spouse, if they play along or not.
Mine did then didn’t 🤦‍♂️

Re: Is it messed up to record candids while in a relationship?

Posted: Tue May 05, 2026 1:54 pm
by unshakeit
It’s a betrayal of trust, especially with someone you’re supposed to care about. If you need that kind of release, talk to your partner, don’t just film them behind their back (whether it's your partner or not by the way).