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Cofefe Shop series - Asian Toes...
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- footman310
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Cofefe Shop series - Asian Toes...
The following is a sample from our "coffee shop series" ... I call it, Asian Toes. I lucked up while trying to take pics of a girl across the way, when this chick sits down next to me, and puts her feet up.. right next to me.

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- footman310
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Yea, it's really Ok - everyone has a right to their opinion. Some of his word choices can easily rub people the wrong way ... but like you said, at least he's being honest and speaking from his heart.
it's always great to hear honest feedback good or bad, for all of the reasons that you mentioned; but sometimes you wonder if people are trying to be helpful with their comments - or destructive...
it's always great to hear honest feedback good or bad, for all of the reasons that you mentioned; but sometimes you wonder if people are trying to be helpful with their comments - or destructive...
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rojo
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There are lots of ways of giving feedback- and if one wants positive results or improvement, one should do it properly. It's always good to practice the method "Kiss-Kick" where one can give a positive comment, then give the areas to improve on. One can even do a Kick-Kiss- Criticize but thank the guy for sharing his pics. But if someone is all Kick-Kick, then he definitely needs to be kicked himself.footman310 wrote:Yea, it's really Ok - everyone has a right to their opinion. Some of his word choices can easily rub people the wrong way ... but like you said, at least he's being honest and speaking from his heart.
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it's always great to hear honest feedback good or bad, for all of the reasons that you mentioned; but sometimes you wonder if people are trying to be helpful with their comments - or destructive...
Footman, maybe the guy had a troubled childhood- you know, parents too hard on him or something, thus the destructive- and disturbing behavior. I think a little criticism is good, only if done properly. And with the correct choice of words. Especially if he's not the boss.
- m66m
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And apparently your parents forgot to send you to school....
In almost every single one of my critiques, while harsh at times, I've thanked the contributor. So, are you and some others too busy oggling at the pix/vids and forget to read what's said?
No, your problem is you're used to mamby-pamby discussion and as a result your brain cells are under-utilized...
In almost every single one of my critiques, while harsh at times, I've thanked the contributor. So, are you and some others too busy oggling at the pix/vids and forget to read what's said?
No, your problem is you're used to mamby-pamby discussion and as a result your brain cells are under-utilized...
rojo wrote:There are lots of ways of giving feedback- and if one wants positive results or improvement, one should do it properly. It's always good to practice the method "Kiss-Kick" where one can give a positive comment, then give the areas to improve on. One can even do a Kick-Kiss- Criticize but thank the guy for sharing his pics. But if someone is all Kick-Kick, then he definitely needs to be kicked himself.footman310 wrote:Yea, it's really Ok - everyone has a right to their opinion. Some of his word choices can easily rub people the wrong way ... but like you said, at least he's being honest and speaking from his heart.
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it's always great to hear honest feedback good or bad, for all of the reasons that you mentioned; but sometimes you wonder if people are trying to be helpful with their comments - or destructive...
Footman, maybe the guy had a troubled childhood- you know, parents too hard on him or something, thus the destructive- and disturbing behavior. I think a little criticism is good, only if done properly. And with the correct choice of words. Especially if he's not the boss.
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Hmmm... he admits at being harsh (at times!?) and apparently he does not deny the troubled childhood, that explains it. He's been to his shrink and he knows his problem. Poor guy... I rest my case.m66m wrote:And apparently your parents forgot to send you to school....
In almost every single one of my critiques, while harsh at times, I've thanked the contributor. So, are you and some others too busy oggling at the pix/vids and forget to read what's said?
No, your problem is you're used to mamby-pamby discussion and as a result your brain cells are under-utilized...



