Is it messed up to record candids while in a relationship?

[JohnnyMarvin]

To some, it might be cheating and a betrayal of faithfulness. However, to others, it's harmless if you don't act out on it, and provides a release that you might not get in your relationship. What are your thoughts?

[istallion]

I think its wrong in general if the other person does not give you consent period

[JWCooley126]

Gray area imo, its like watching porn by yourself in a relationship. I don't recommend it , but don't think there's a clear cut right or wrong.

[rubyred]

Depends on the spouse, if they play along or not.
Mine did then didn’t

[unshakeit]

It’s a betrayal of trust, especially with someone you’re supposed to care about. If you need that kind of release, talk to your partner, don’t just film them behind their back (whether it's your partner or not by the way).