A Psychological Question

[kingdom]

Guys I've got another query. I love this site with all my heart. And I confess to all of you that I do a lot of surfing during the week just for this fetish of mine. I'm on at least for an hour during the evening hours before heading off to bed. The thing is this; I go online and I watch all these footsie clips, footjob clips, and shoe dangling clips. Nothing. I get no feeling of arousal at all. But then when there is a woman dangling a pump on the bus, at lunch, whatever, I get turned on. Likewise for a dipper. Then I saw a girl playing footsie with her shoes on at Chilli's the other night and I couldn't stand up for half an hour. The question is why do I feel like this? Should I quit surfing the net for a while so that I could get my rush back? Or am I just immuned for the rest of my life? Please help me!

[nyllover]

I wouldn't worry that much if i was you....actually i think it's good for you. Because it means the internet doesn't "give" you what real life does.
THere are many crazy doctors around saying that internet makes people crazy, addicted, throw them far from real life...well, you are the demonstration of the opposite! Don't worry too much, and try to go to as many "Expo" shows (especially car ones) that you can... i am sure you will see lots of dipping

[Footsiefreak]

Guys I've got another query. I love this site with all my heart. And I confess to all of you that I do a lot of surfing during the week just for this fetish of mine. I'm on at least for an hour during the evening hours before heading off to bed. The thing is this; I go online and I watch all these footsie clips, footjob clips, and shoe dangling clips. Nothing. I get no feeling of arousal at all. But then when there is a woman dangling a pump on the bus, at lunch, whatever, I get turned on. Likewise for a dipper. Then I saw a girl playing footsie with her shoes on at Chilli's the other night and I couldn't stand up for half an hour. The question is why do I feel like this? Should I quit surfing the net for a while so that I could get my rush back? Or am I just immuned for the rest of my life? Please help me!

Theres nothing wrong with you.Some people get aroused just from "live action" because you are actually there.You are interacting with her whether you realize it or not theres a chance you might talk to her or touch her.The internet cant give you that feeling.

For me I can get fully aroused just from watching footsie on tv/internet.My love for footsie and hosed feet is just that extreme.But sometimes if I watch a live dipper I wont get aroused it depends on the mood.

[wsrfr]

I am sort of the same way...but footsie, dangling, other types of shoeplay seem hard to come by these days since everyone around here (N..CA) are wearing boots or tennies. In warmer weather, those pumps seem to have given way to slides and other more comfy types of footwear

There is just NOTHING for me like actually seeing it LIVE. I'm addicted!! Fortunately, I have a few videos that help a little, depending on my mood, but even those are getting a little old now. If I see a lady in a restaurant or someplace else dangling or dipping (with the right shoes) , its like I am hypnotiized, although I try to be careful not to stare. I don't know what it is, but I wish I had a more "conventional" turn on. My friends think I am nuts.

[kingdom]

Sigh it's weird how desperate I am. I get turned on just by looking at old ladies dip. For instance the party I went to tonight. I was just on the prowl all night. When I heard a shoe drop to my surprise, it was actually my own mother's. Don't call it an Oedipus complex, but I was actually turned on. And she was wearing a short skirt with black hose. Ugh. It's so frustrating. I miss being a kid where we used to "innocently" play footsie

[Dead Parrot]

Hi Kingdom,

I wouldn't worry about your feeling, or lack thereof. Watching pixels perform rather than a pixie perform are two very different things, and your reactions should differ.

After reading your post I thought about golf. Nothing is more boring and utterly mind numbing to me than watching golf on TV (which is why I don't watch it!). However, actually playing golf is a real treat, especially with good buddies and some adult beverages in a cooler stowed in the golf cart.

You're experiencing the same thing I believe: the rush of being there vs. watching it on TV.

DP