How open are you with your foot/footsie fetish now?

[Footsiefreak]

Before I had the internet I kept it to myself because I thought I was the only one.But when I got the internet I was shocked that there were so many communities who love footsies,dipping, etc.Now if someone asked "what is your favorite body part on a woman?" I proudly say feet because I know there are others who are just like me.

[wsrfr]

How open...??? With men or women??....

In spite of all the stuff on the web now, I am still not open about it with guys, mainly because we are still a very small number compared with the overall adult male population. My friends still think it is "weird shit" as one put it and my other calls it coocoomunga. With women its a little different. If I meet a lady with nice looking feet, then I "feel" her out and if I think she is open to it, then I proceed carefully and let her get used to the idea. This assumes she likes me in the first place! Women are people..some are more open to "different" things than others. I never bring it up when I meet someone initially that I am interested in.

I was shocked but pleased too when I discovered it many years ago and it was Nova's site that really surprised me. I could hardly believe my eyes. Back then he was in San Diego. But I ordered several of his tapes and tapes from other sources. I have more tapes than I care to think about actually. I plan to burn or sell them before I die!

[kingdom]

In spite of my experiences, I still have a very difficult time telling people about this fetish. Heck, it's worse than telling people that you're gay (not there is anything wrong with it, nor am I one of them), but the truth is that this is a very taboo subject to deal with. Again, it's all about our upbringing and eventually I think people may understand where we are coming from. So no I'm not open about talking about the subject, and this forum is the only place that gives me the ability to voice myself.

[wsrfr]

I agree with the kingdom's feelings about telling people about this. If you are gay, then the best place to live is probably SF if you are in California.
At least there are gays there and it is not unusual to see them. But feet/shoes?? No...I don' t tell any friend (man or woman) about it. They may eventually find out about it, but it won't be through me.

[Dead Parrot]

I generally take a very reserved approach to this in reality. Although as Kingdom pointed out foot fetishism is still a taboo subject, it's never been more open and accepted as it is today. I believe this situation will only improve with time.

You just have to be discreet and use your best judgement on this.

DP

[wsrfr]

I agree with Dead Parrot; in spite of the fact that it is the most common fetish in the world, it is still not generally accepted here in the U.S. I'm glad there are sites like these where we can share our views.

Of interest to me and maybe others, I have an e-mail friend in New Zealand who says women routinely dip and dangle their shoes and unlike here, where "casual and comfort" seem to be the rule now, most women there still dress up when they go to work. He says women dangle everywhere.

[kingdom]

Another reason for me to move down there. It's a boring country for me which I love, it's clean, I love the scnery, and no terroriist threats. I'm packing tonight.