Ever get confronted or challenged?

[Ravenstein]

Ever get challenged by people on your FF? Ever defended why FF isn't the equivalent of a mass rapist?

Why is it that men are okay about joking "yo I'd fuck her pussy" but raise one eyebrow when you say something like "isn't her feet sexy?"

[KMFDNFAN]

When I was very young a teacher caught me. Looking back I'm sure I looked more obvious than I thought I did. I keep the fetish a secret. I DON'T think that we are dangerous people, although I've seen questionable comments on HSN and instagram which infuriate me. I would prefer people kept it a secret unless they're paying models to do it and making money off of websites but no...I wouldn't ever approach a woman and compliment her feet. I think foot fetishism will get worse before it gets better. People are aware that we exist, but they don't know "shoeplay" or terms like "dipping" I think if it were more well known we'd see a huge decline in candid shoeplay and more girls just doing it as a practical joke. Or more girls not doing it in general. So I'm one of the people who would prefer that other people shut up about it. I'm not trying to be rude, I just think foot fetishism should be associated with pornography, not women looking over their shoulder at the office because they learned a new word: "Shoeplay." We don't want that. Girls don't tease us with their feet. If they do, it's because they are familiar with the fetish and I don't like it when people theorize that a woman is teasing THEM with their feet to flirt. I'm sure they all laugh at us more than anything else. If I'm wrong, sorry. I really don't know what to say. We just need to be discreet. I look at instagram and there is ALWAYS someone flapping their lips about it. I just think "STOP" let the girl think it's mysterious. It weirds women out more than it turns them on.

[MM12]

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She defends us.

[nyllover]

Fighting...i've been doing it for ages, and i still do. There was a time when i was embarassed to talk about all this.. now, especially after i got married with Nyllady, i am more comfortable. What i always say is "if i dont judge you going crazy about boobs, why would you judge me going crazy about feet?"
Of course, as everything, it would be wrong to limit our passion for women to just feet.... and i DONT accept those of us that simply just look at a woman's feet and nothing else...women are much more. But a part from that... it all depends on the way you approach people, on the way you react to their comments.
Dont get angry, be smarter than them. They say silly things? Be calm, talk about it as it would be the most normal thing around, compare it to their fetish foor boobs... you'll see the results. Of course not online, where it's easy for them to hide behind a keyboard...but if you talk live to a person about this, believe me: it's all about your way of approaching it. You CAN change their minds, you CAN stop them saying stupid things....if you remain calm and give them the same shit they give you.

It's tough, and not everyone can do it... but it can be done


And regarding women... no, they are not all making jokes about it. No. In the end...what a woman really want is a man to get excited when he's with her in a sexual way...so if feet are what it takes to excite you...she will use them if she wants you, simply as that...

[llama]

I see a therapist for many reasons, but one I the things I have discussed in the past is the shame and embarrassment associated with my foot fetish. It has affected me at previous jobs and more recently on a website featuring cam girls. My female therapist has provided me with the best line to use that seems to shut the foot haters up. "With the amount of money women spend on shoes, pedicures and jewelery, its no wonder men notice them and some are attracted to them"