I froze up! feedback seriously needed

Coldestheat · Post by **Coldestheat** » Tue Jan 15, 2008 9:29 pm

I cant believe myself right now. I've had girlfriends in the past that just haven't known about my foot fetish and just wrote it off as showing affection when i would play footsie and pay attention to their feet..but my girlfriend now would always ask me if I had a foot fetish..and i would just change the subject or say "sorta, but not really" dismissing it as me just preferring that females keep their feet nice and well kept...well i noticed once when i gave her a foot massage that she was really into it and she asked me to suck her toes..and i done it and it turned her on very much so!! so i just kept that in the bag of tricks and i would do it from time to time....well anyway if we were out and about together she started to notice that i comment on girls feet alot and she noticed that I'm always looking at girls feet and she never said anything until the day she asked again..she came up to me first and put her feet on my lap and said "you want them don't you" i said no im fine with my size 15's lol...she said oh so you don't like my feet...i said no your feet are beautiful..yadda yadda yadda..well she said well why do you go online looking at feet websites...i said what are you talking about...she said whats this nyllover.com that i see in your history..i played dumb and said..hmm i don't know..probably nothing..she said "ohhh well let just go see.." i tried taking my laptop away and wrestled with her to get it before she gave in...and she said..oh ive already been on there to see what it was i was just seeing what you would tell me it was...she said " just tell me...you have a foot fetish don't you?" i said why would you ask that..what makes you think that..she says well you and i play footsie an awful lot for you not to like feet! and you always just out of the blue suck my toes and pay extra attention to my feet...i was just sitting there blank faced...and she said plus this website...and you left a video of two girls playing footsie up on your windows media player...i just sat there blank faced and didn't know how to respond! then finally i just said yes i have a foot fetish...and its been all my life...and she asked me what it was i liked...and i couldn't talk about it to her for some reason...i just kept freezing up and saying i don't know...anyway i just found it to be uncomfortable to bring up and talk about with her...cuz i didn't know that if once i brought it up i would get a negative response..or corny jokes...now i feel happier about it cuz she knows i like feet but i wouldn't feet comfortable talking to her about it in depth and telling her how when she played footsie with a two of her friends that it was a huge turn on and i would like to see it again...i don't know im confused...what do you guys think about this..and what should i do or should i have done?

Crowe · Post by **Crowe** » Tue Jan 15, 2008 9:44 pm

You need to relax man. I've found that having a foot fetish is only as freakishly hideous as you make it out to be. If your cool and calm about your fetish, most girls are too. Aside from that, shes your girlfriend. She has a right to know what turns you on. Just go with the flow. If you don't feel comfortable talking to her about it then there may be bigger problems with the relationship that you should worry about haha.

darkwolf_420 · Post by **darkwolf_420** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 6:31 am

Well coming from a person who has a foot fetish himself, I can remember having one as far back as 1st grade

and I to for some reason always had trouble telling my past girlfrends about it but once I did I felt so much better after i opened up.

Although like yours they were always smart enough to figure it out for them selves.

In my experiance all of them are very fine with it and after they knew they actually used it to their advantage hehe, with was very nice

I think you should just try open up about it with her I know its not the most easiest thing to do but tell her what you like about it, and what turns you on (for me I like nyloned feet the best.)

Once you do you will feel so much better about it and she will know what really turns you on and that will greatly enhance your sex life with eachother.

Theres nothing worse than having a sex fetish like ours and unable to endulge yourself................

I dont know about you guys but when summer comes and girls are wearing flip-flops and sandles thay drives me fucking insane, I hate and love summer for that very reason LOL.

Anyway man hope this helps .... l8rz
Darkwolf

nonamer · Post by **nonamer** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 9:49 am

There's nothing to worry about. Talk with her, it's certain that she loves your fetish and wants to learn the details or the kind of your fetish. What can be happened? Will she laugh at you or abase you? She will turn your life to a paradise

I had a similar problem, i told my girlfriend about my nylon foot fetish in the first days of our relationship but i couldn't tell her that i like the naturel smell of the feet, bad smell maybe. Because i thought that it was a bad thing, a thing to be ashamed of. But she felt that and start asking me questions about it, like your girlfriend does

After two years i told her about it. She was coming to bed after washing her feet and wearing new nylons to help my fetish before, after that time she began to seduce me when we return from a walk or something like that. She began to come to bed with her shoes on, so i would be the one to take off them

She wore a stockings for a few days to make that smell... We really had a good time after that, especially for me it was paradise

Think like this, if she really had a fetish, wouldn't you help her although it could be a weird thing?

With this poor English i can't explain my ideas better

Footsiefreak · Post by **Footsiefreak** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 12:17 pm

Relax you should have been upfront with her and said that was me on this site.Apologize and promise you will give her a foot rub everyday and say it in a joking way to lighten her up.

But chill on looking at other womens feet just do it when shes not there.Also learn to log off on your laptop.

She is your lady and should be sympathetic to your fetish so you should never try to hide it.If she doesn't like it and think you are weird than move on to another who will accept you for who you are

Coldestheat · Post by **Coldestheat** » Wed Jan 30, 2008 6:04 am

Well I had a talk with her and explained the situation and she said..finally you admit it...but she did think that i was looking at other girls with interest in them not their feet..but after i told her that she said " oh so you just check their feet out?" and i told her yes and explained to her a lil more of what my interest is and told her its been all my life..she said well i was always making sure i kept my feet done and pedicured but i sure will make sure to always have em done now..and why dont you come with me sometime and select the color you like..so she seems to be open to it...now it does feel better..i think ill wait on tellin her bout me witnessing her playing footsie with her female friends two different occasions (which ive posted about)..and prob hold off on tellin her the depth of that and how that was a huge turn on and i want to see more! but i think i took a step in the right direction and thanks to all who commented..prob wouldnt have done it as easily without you all!