[ENG] How Did This All Begin?

[kingdom]

Hey guys, I 'm sure there is a similar message out there, but if you all don't mind, would you guys just indulge in telling me how your footsie fetish started? Quite honestly, mine started out when my English teacher at school started to play footsie with me during class. It was very innocent how I would place my leg right against her foot when she sat on the high stool reading to us. I don't know if the class noticed, but she would hide her foot under my desk and start rubbing up and down my leg. Needless to say, I got kicked out of that school later on for my indecent actions. This is all true, and I hope that you guys can be true to me also. Well happy writing.

[Weekend_Warrior]

When i was a kid, I used to kiss girls feet in school, with their permission of course. That was like in grade 2 - 3. I didn't know why. Thus, we may assume that foot fetish is formed really early in the childhood, if a child finds himself around feet of adults, especially his mother, he may develop a foot fetish. I can't recall that far, all I remember is that I was kissing girls feet under the table, no pun intended. That was awesome when I go back in my memory today. I wish I could go back in time. As I said, at that time, I didn't know why I used to kiss their feet, well, i didn't know that it was foot fetish at least. When I left junior school, things changed, and haven't kissed female feet since i was 12.

[Dead Parrot]

Three's Company episode (an epiphany if there ever was one), finally realizing what girl could do with her foot, and experience.

We all seem to have had very similar starting points with that sitcom and for our esteemed webmaster, the Grandi Magazzini scene.

What happens to us when we are young really goes a long way into shaping us as adults. This also applies to non-sexual experiences and attitude.

DP

[Footsiefreak]

My footsie fetish was born from the Legendary Threes Company EPISODE.I realzed I was into feet at 6 would watch my 2nd grade teacher dip she was my first dipper I ever watched.I started playing footsies at movies with strangers in 1991.

[kingdom]

Hey guys thanks for being so candid and open with me. Hope to hear more replies soon. It seems like a lot of us have this fetish ingrained into our brains. I guess parenting and adults' influence have a lot to do with it. Then of course I watched Weekend at Bernies when I was 14 along with Who's Harry Crumb and I got hooked. Haha, the days before the internet. Only the good ol ' VCR really helped feed this hobby of mine. Thanks !

[P-Dub]

The mind is shaped from an early age with this stuff, methinks. Three's Company was a huge influence on me, but almost as much were sex scenes where the woman runs her feet up and down the legs of the man. I think we can safely call that foot seduction, too.

Of course, a scientific explanation may not be beyond the realm of possibility. An interesting thought: What if they found the gene that controlled what fetishes we had? Then maybe it would be easier to identify ladies who had a foot affection of their own. Then how great would life be?!?

[WaddupJee]

Altho I told this story for the third time...Im gonna cut it short. My parents were a big influence on me and also later on when I discovered the Dr. Jeckyl Ms Hyde.

[Weekend_Warrior]

according to studies, 95% of foot fetishists are male, others are female with foot fetish (they like male feet) and lesbian foot fetishists (not that much of these, sadly).

[ykantickleme]

Well, my fetish started pretty much like the rest of you, as a child. First, it was my mother and father playing footsie, then television commercials like the one about the man saying to his wife, "I decided what I want," and as he is saying that, the woman slips her right foot out of her sling-back and says, "Oh, so do I," and slips her foot up his pant leg. I know that has been in the video/t.v. section for some time now, but I wouldn't mind seeing it again, if it could be found. There are other experiences, but for now, that is it.

[Footsiefreak]

Well, my fetish started pretty much like the rest of you, as a child. First, it was my mother and father playing footsie, then television commercials like the one about the man saying to his wife, "I decided what I want," and as he is saying that, the woman slips her right foot out of her sling-back and says, "Oh, so do I," and slips her foot up his pant leg. I know that has been in the video/t.v. section for some time now, but I wouldn't mind seeing it again, if it could be found. There are other experiences, but for now, that is it.

I remember that Loreal commercial that was the first tv footsie scene I ever saw.

[wsrfr]

I'm glad someone brought this up....

I can't believe Kingdom's story. Neverbeen lucky enough to have a teacher play footsie with me...

As for my fetish, mine started at a very early age and I have no idea what triggered it.

Maybe grammar school since that WAS a very long time ago. I rememer during phys ed class when the boys and girls were supposed to change in to their tennies and do whatever they were supposed to do. I would "sneak" away from the group telling them I needed a drink of water (which I did). The drinking fountain happened to be near the girl's shoes, and I would look at them for several minutes. I don't know if they could see me or not. But there were a lot of them. I remember seeing one pair that really excited me. They looked new; shiny black and the brand was "Three Muskateers". Who else but a shoe nut would notice and remember that?? Anyway, I picked one up and smelled it. It even smelled brand new. I was going to take it but I was afraid to.

In high school, I there were a couple of girls who (subtedly) made fun of it. I must have been just a little too obvious. They were sitting in back of me wearing flats and I would look every chance I could. After awhile, they caught on. They would whisper my name and I would turn around. The girl with the flat would dangle it for me and they would giggle. I was embarrassed. I must have turned 10 shades of red. And I DID NOT enjoy it.

So here I am, decades later and I still have it.... I think I would watch a lady dangle than actually having sex with her...or at least it would be like foreplay.

[ILF]

I think Three's Company was greatly, but not in whole responsible.

[wsrfr]

I don't think it started with any tv program or movie for me. There is nothing I can remember from any tv program that sparked my interest in feet and shoes. This is offtopic but I can only tell you that the tv program that made an impression on me was "My Three Sons" and it wasn't because of any shoe/foot action. I had an incredible crush on "Katie", that cute blonde that married one of the sons. OK, so it is stupid.

This fetish started to interest me when I was in grade school. I think I was around 8 years old or something like that. That would make it around 1958.

I think it is in person's genes. It is like any other like or dislike: some guys love blondes and some don't. Others like huge tits. I don't. In fact I hate huge tits. They have to be proportioned to the lady. Nothing looks more ridiculous than huge ones on a slender lady.

[ILF]

I second the motion.

[Weekend_Warrior]

lol huge tits.

I'm only 18, so i'd say that I love any tits medium to large, as long as they don't hang somewhere downstairs and are not flat like a wall.

yo, abt the foot fetish, it's not genes, put psychological influence of parents on a child. U've probably been around ur mother's feet alot when u were a child, but u were to young to remember it now...

[wsrfr]

With all due respect to the person who felt it was from being around my mother's feet a lot when I was young, all little kids are around their mother's feet when they are very young. They can't stand up and usually want attention, so they cling to their mother's ankles or feet. I have a nephew who did this all the time when he was very young and his mother was always walking with a little boy clamped to her lower ankles. But he doesn't have a fetish now that he is much older.

I think in large part what we like is shaped by our genes. Now he is a good question even though it is off-topic. Why do you think there are gays?? Do you think it is choice or genetic? I think it is genetic.

[kingdom]

Well I gotta come out of hiding one way or another. My fetish started way earlier than I had mentioned when I was with my teacher. I used to play footsie with my mother really often. Guys this is really difficult to talk about. It's almost like talking about being sexually abused, but it's not. The reason why I like this site so much is because I have this thing ingrained into my psyche now. I can't stop thinking about it, and it's nice to turn to a group of people who have the same interests. And it is so nice to have these affirmations from the past 15 or so posts talking about how our childhood effects us so much. I do believe now that it is all in the genetics. Well I wish I could get into more details with you guys, but it's very explicit stuff. It's just too hard to open up a can of worms right now. Talk more later.

[wsrfr]

Hey Kingdom,

I started playing footsie with my younger sister when I was really young. She was the "nervous" type and was always playing with her sandals and pumps and I started playing subtle footsie with her. Actually I was trying to play a modified version of footsie. I tried to move her pump and sandal around w/o her knowing about it and a few times she rubbed my foot but didn't say a word...she just kept it up. It was just her nature. I even bought her a few pair of stylish and sexy high heels. She was a pretty girl and she looked great in those heels and she would almost always play with them. Of course by then she knew I had this fetish. So Kingdom, don't feel ashamed. I would bet there are a lot more like us out there (or in the closet).

there is a lot more to this, but I didn't want to write a book even though I could have.

[kingdom]

Hey thank you so much wsrdr for your helpful replies today. It's nice to talk openly about these topics. It's even harder to find a site such as this one. Looking forward to talking more in the near future. Cheers!

[Dead Parrot]

Childhood experiences affect some males more than others. I am not sure why but I suppose, as has been pointed out, that it has to do with how our brain is put together. Our bodies mature much faster than our minds, so things happen well before we are able to interpret them.

One thing I am sure about is that as a male you are going to react sexually when an attractive female touches you. Whether that female is your buddy's wife, or your own sister is irrelevant.

As a man you are hardwired to look for sex and to easily get an erection several times a day. It's the survival instinct that urges you to impregnate as many females as possible to keep the species going.

There is no shame in becoming aroused because of a female family member. Your brain and your cock don't care: they simply see an attractive female and respond accordingly.

DP